Audrey Godfrey

Remembering Mom

My mother and I weren't close when I was young. Born the second of six children and living on a farm, my mother had plenty to do and it wasn't the age of your parents telling you they loved you.

After high school and two years at Weber College I left home and lived in many places until moving to Logan in 1978.

I write this, because recently I've been reading my mother's journals which she began in 1975 shortly after my father died. I discovered a mother I never knew. A mother who struggled through several bouts of cancer and other health problems, but who quietly endured excruciating pain at times. She refused to take pain medication because she feared becoming addicted.

It's time for daffodils

I've noticed yellow daffodils brightening the yards of our neighbors.

As yet, ours are still deciding when to bloom.

The bright yellow against the still barren earth cause me to remember a poem by William Wordsworth titled "I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud."

The hazards of exercise

Recently I wrote a treatise on my morning walk. After reading it over I thought it would put readers to sleep, so I fell back on writing about my husband's mornings on the road. My husband walks at 5:30 a.m. and then rides his bike for an hour.

My husband started jogging long before it was popular. We were living in Arizona in 1969 and his middle age spread began to show itself, so he started to run.

By his count he has run in five different countries and in twenty-one states. Wherever he travels he takes a morning sprint through the area. Knowing this I had an ID necklace made for him, but it was the wrong era for men to wear necklaces, so he never used it. I expected him to wind up in the ER with a nurse looking down and saying, "Oh, I know him." Read further and you'll know why I worry.

Audrey Godfrey

The left-handed blues

I've been right handed for over 70 years. I'm really good at doing things right handed, such as writing, lifting, cooking, housework, typing, holding a book, etc. However, an operation on Jan. 4 forced me to be left handed, at which I am not very good.

First of all, a brace with a hard "pillow" that holds my right arm in place prevents me from doing many of the tasks I used to handle with ease-like eating, fixing my hair, holding a newspaper or a book. It forces me to sleep with my hand in the air perpetually signaling my readiness to answer any questions I dream about.

Audrey Godfrey

A New Year's summary

Don't expect this column to reveal my New Year's resolutions kept or unkept. Don't even expect my resolutions for 2012. I do not list any, nor do I even think of any. As far as resolutions go I'm better off without them.

The last time I made any was in the 1960s. Who thought it would be a good idea to write down goals that you never would keep?

In fact, one humorist described them as something that goes in one year and out the other.

Audrey Godfrey

Christmas greetings

Among the treasures I enjoy at this time of year are old Christmas postcards sent to my father in the first and second decade of the 1900s. Costing only a penny to mail, and a penny to buy, the cards traveled back and forth between my father in North Ogden and his cousins in Weston, Idaho. The messages rarely were humorous, nor were they maudlin verses, but displayed little works of art with sincere written greetings.

Cousin Harold wrote on a card imprinted with "Ever Thine" and a picture of a child in a bright red coat holding a white dove: "I hope this finds you all well as it leaves us the same at present. We are having an awfull cold winter out here, so cold that little Karl and I cant go out to play. Write soon."

Three women signed another card that featured a curly haired, pink-cheeked girl with "A Joyful Christmas" message surrounded by red holly berries and leaves. Another holly framed winter scene arrived from Pearly Swift.

Three sailors tell their stories

On Nov. 11, 1984, my mother wrote in her diary, "Veterans Day. Sixty-Six years since we celebrated the end of World War I in McGill, Nevada. I was nine years old. I woke to hear whistles, bells, sirens, yelling, guns shooting. Everybody was happy the war was over. There was a makeshift parade, mostly men and women [marching]. We were treated to watching a caterpillar-tired army tank demolish several shells. We hung the Kaiser in Effigy and then burned him. It was all exciting and dramatic to my eyes."

Twenty years later her three youngest brothers. Bob, Neil and Lee joined or were drafted into the U.S. Navy one by one to serve in the Pacific Theater of World War II. A few years ago I interviewed them about their service.

Audrey Godfrey

A harvest of words

On Oct. 16, 1758, the great lexicographer and philologist, Noah Webster, was born. He is famous for his American Dictionary of the English Language published in 1812 which defined 70,000 words.

Since its publication, many dictionaries have followed. My version is Webster's College Dictionary. I like words. When I'm reading I continually run to my dictionary to look up a word's meaning. Here are a few of the words I've discovered.

Agita describes my condition after eating too many tomatoes. It means heartburn.

Audrey Godfrey

Reading and eating bales of wheat

Did you know some grocery products hold surprises? No, I'm not talking about spoiled contents, or bugs. We finished a box of All Bran the other day and found a packet of dried cranberries at the bottom. Boxes of Triscuits now enclose a card of herb seeds taped inside. It's almost like the old days when oatmeal boxes had pretty dishes inside and Nabisco Shredded Wheat used blotters to separate the layers of baled hay. Woops! I mean the rolled wheat biscuits that looked like miniature bales of hay and still do, though now Post produces them.

The product known as Shredded Wheat was concocted by Henry Perky of Denver, Colo. He took his recipe made from boiled wheat to a machinist friend in New York. They developed a machine for making a "biscuit" which could be baked into a dry long lasting cereal. Their goal was to sell the machine, but when Perky returned home he started selling the biscuits from a horse-drawn wagon.

N. Ogden residents should support new museum

I was interested in Merrill Spendlove's letter on Monday, August 1, regarding the small amount of taxes going to North Ogden and what the city does with it (I was born and raised in North Ogden). One thing he didn't menton is the city museum which has been housed in and upstairs room accessed by steep stairs. I visited there a few weeks ago and I am amazed at the amount of information and artifacts housed there. The room is well kept, everything is labeled and filed. The story boards made by museum board members are interesting, as are maps of the mountains and their peaks which are identified.

Audrey Godfrey

Kids work

Customers of young merchants are a soft sell no matter what the kids are selling. Only the hard hearted refuse to buy. I speak from experience. Children think up all kinds of ways of making money. Three children came to our house one day carrying brooms, including a push broom much bigger than were they. "Can we sweep your driveway for you?" they asked. My husband had just finished the yard work which included sweeping, so I told them no, but I felt bad afterwards. A week later they brought their brooms to the door again, and again I said we didn't need help. An hour later they were back-one with an odd pencil picture, and the other with a plastic flower. Their persistence paid off. I said I'd take the picture and gave them each a quarter.

Audrey Godfrey

Cherry Day then and now

About this time of year my mouth waters with thoughts of a plump red cherry. I grew up eating red cherries. I grew up in a cherry orchard -- first sitting in a box with my toys, then outlining "rooms" with rocks to play in, and finally picking and sorting the fruit. My siblings and I like talking about those days in the orchard -- who worked the hardest, which pickers we liked, who ate the most cherries (and paid for it later).

Our orchards were planted in the late teens of the 20th century by my grandfather William A. Montgomery on rocky ground sheltered from the frost of the valley just below the mountain road in North Ogden. Our dad bossed the cherry pickers -- a core group of family and young people glad to have a summer job, as well as Italian and German prisoners of war, and, one year, men sent from the Salvation Army in Ogden.

Audrey Godfrey

Cooking with Dad

I remember so many things about my father, not only on Father's Day, but on June 1 -- his birthday. Were he alive I could count 111 years of memories. But I'll settle for two. A farmer who spent most of his days in the fields or barn, Dad occasionally took a notion to work a little magic in the kitchen. When we saw him bring out the black fry pan, we knew we were about to be treated to Lazy Women's Bread, a recipe which dated to his LDS missionary days in Nevada in the early 1920s.

The recipe (which was in his head) called for flour, salt, baking powder, and milk which he mixed in a bowl then poured into the hot pan. After cooking it on both sides, our plates were ready for the plump bread, cut in wedges and accompanied with a glass of our own cows' milk. He liked it with water cress. We liked it with butter and sugar, or sometimes spread with homemade cherry jam. It may have been pretty tasteless in reality, but since our dad made it we thought it was wonderful.

Audrey Godfrey

The graveyard is the place to be for Mother's Day, Memorial Day

How do you write about two important days and do them justice? The best I can do is chronicle how my mother (and father) helped our family honor our ancestors and then throw in some humor straight from the cemetery.

Almost as long as I can remember, our family spent the morning of Memorial Day picking flowers on the mountainside, enjoying a great outdoor breakfast, and meeting again at the cemetery where we talked about our loved ones who had passed on, especially our Grandmother Stena and two baby boys who died before we were born. The wild flower bouquets honored our pioneer era ancestors who we thought would appreciate having their graves decorated with flowers from our Montgomery mountain property.

Gathering those bouquets meant hiking to find the flowers. My mother, up until about two years before her death, managed to make the climb as far as the canal. We found her effort remarkable, as was her life. Her sense of humor would cause her to appreciate the rest of this column.

Audrey Godfrey

Eastering in the Top of Utah

Lately I've been talking to friends about eastering? What's that? they ask. I'm surprised at their ignorance of one of the most enjoyable rites of spring.

All the kids in my home town went eastering. Some scattered on the foothills below Ben Lomond, making sure part of the hike was to Frog Rock.

Our family climbed the mountain above our house to the bridge over the canal. What did we do? We rolled our colored eggs, then peeled the shells off and ate them with a little dirt, some leftover shell, and salt we'd brought wrapped in wax paper. Sitting on the bridge, looking out over all of North Ogden and the towns about them, laughing and visiting, we passed the morning in the fresh air. That's eastering.

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