Becky Cairns

Girl or boy? The ultimate surprise some parents still want

It’s two weeks before her due date and Sara Bell’s hospital bag is already packed with two cute baby outfits.

One is pink. One is gray.

No, this Ogden mother isn’t expecting twins — just one baby, gender unknown.

As unusual as it may seem, Sara and Ryan Bell don’t intend to find out whether their dear little Baby Bell is a boy or a girl until he or she is born.

“To find out in the moment, when everything is so emotional and intense — here’s your son, here’s your daughter ... just picturing that is so exciting,” Sara Bell says during an interview, often patting the expected child growing in her round belly.

Adds husband Ryan Bell, “You’re always going to be curious; I think it’s just natural to want to know. But I think the reward for waiting will outweigh the curiosity.”

Midwife can keep a secret

If Mom and Dad don’t know if they’re having a boy or a girl, certified nurse midwife Christy Francis doesn’t want to know, either.

“Sometimes if they’re having a surprise, it helps me to be surprised ... because I don’t want to accidentally slip,” says Francis, who offers routine ultrasounds for mothers throughout their pregnancies at Ogden Nurse Midwives in South Ogden.

Extra care is needed on ultrasounds, Francis says, in order to avoid scrolling over “something” that reveals the sex, or to avoid reacting to seeing that something.

“You hope they don’t see any different look on your face,” she says.

Adds ultrasound technician Kathy Field: “If you slip and tell them, it’s like ruining Christmas, you know what I mean?”

Some seem put off by parents’ refusal to know baby’s gender

How can you not find out?

It’s a question Top of Utah parents who choose not to learn the gender of their babies before they are born say they hear again and again.

“Nobody likes surprises anymore, I guess,” says Dionna Mestas of Ogden, who is waiting until her baby arrives in September to see if it’s a boy or a girl.

Some folks almost seem a little put off when Mestas tells them she doesn’t know the what she’s having.

“It’s kind of like they think you’re keeping a secret from them,” she says.

Photo courtesy Golden Spike National Historic Site
Pat Maher was among attendees at the re-enactment of the driving of the golden spike at Promontory Summit in 2012.

Happy birthday, railroad ... and Pat, too

Pass out the party hats, folks, it’s birthday time again at the Golden Spike National Historic Site.

And Pat Maher gets two hats, thank you very much — one to wear for the traditional railroading birthday celebrated every May 10, and one to wear for his own birthday, also on May 10.

Sharing his date of birth with this historic Utah holiday means Maher elects to spend many of his May 10ths at Promontory Summit to relive the driving of the golden spike at the completion of the first transcontinental railroad in 1869.

No, he won’t be handing out slices of birthday cake, but Maher will make the trek north this Friday for his 52nd birthday and the site’s 144th anniversary.

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Beaver No. 6, the last animal to be taken to the Wildlife Rehabilitation Center of Northern Utah after the diesel fuel spill at Willard Bay State Park, is fed a nutrient-rich powder mixed with baby food through a syringe. The most critically injured beavers also receive pain medication.

Willard beavers on the rebound in rehab

Coaxing a very sleepy beaver out of its snug “nest” and into its morning bath is a skill in and of itself.

DaLyn Erickson-Marthaler is down on her knees, crawling inside a wire pet crate.

“I know, it’s terrible to wake up like this,” she says softly to the beaver as she scoops him up in her arms, one hand under his big, flat tail, and whisks him off for a weigh-in and then the tub.

It’s the start of another day in the rehabilitation journey of six beavers injured in a recent diesel fuel spill at Willard Bay. For more than 40 days now, the animals have received care for burns, skin abscesses and gastrointestinal problems in their new “lodge” at the Wildlife Rehabilitation Center of Northern Utah.

Beaver No. 1 takes a bath at the Wildlife Rehabilitation Center of Northern Utah in Ogden recently. This beaver, one of six injured in a mid-March diesel spill at Willard Bay, gets a bath three times a day. (KERA WILLIAMS/Special to the Standard-Examiner)

Center chewing over groundbreaking beaver data, DNA tests

A mystery is gnawing at the branches of the rescued Willard Bay beavers’ family tree.

Beaver No. 6 is likely related to No. 5 — but is he also related to No. 2? Are No. 3 and No. 1 siblings? Is Momma the mother of two of the juveniles, or all five of them — or none of them?

DNA testing may be able to sort out the relationships of the six animals injured in a recent diesel fuel spill at the bay and now recovering at the Wildlife Rehabilitation Center of Northern Utah.

Photo illustration by NICK SHORT and BRYAN NIELSEN/Standard-Examiner
TOP ROW, LEFT TO RIGHT: Ashlee Cawley, Tanay Craig
SECOND ROW: Joshua Toms
THIRD ROW, LEFT TO RIGHT: Matthew Held, Chance Cummings, Ashley Redd
FOURTH ROW: Rachel Foremaster
BOTTOM ROW: Jordan Foremaster

App happy: We asked folks to tell us about their favorite smartphone applications

How crazy was it that we used to think cellphones were just for talking?

Now that we’ve been blasted into the app-iverse, our cellular devices have morphed into bargain hunters, food critics, travel agents and even star finders.

“Our whole lives are on these crazy things,” says music professor Shannon Roberts of Ogden’s Weber State University.

Indeed, our apps are so important that 85 percent of smartphone users said in recent survey they’d rather go without drinking water than delete all of their mobile apps.

The Apigee survey, released in February at the 2013 Mobile World Congress, also revealed that 82 percent of those queried said they couldn’t go without certain critical apps — email, Facebook and alarm clocks — for even a single day.

So which apps do Top of Utah residents love most? We just had to find out.

Photo courtesy Susan Douglas
Lian Silver, daughter of Susan Douglas of Salt Lake City, rides atop Soren several years ago in the Tremonton area. At that time Soren went by the name Stubby.

A Utah tale of a horse with no tail

Secretariat could run like the wind, Trigger was a movie star and Mr. Ed could talk.

As horses go, Soren is special, too, although you won’t see why when first meeting him face to face. But as soon as this big red horse turns around, you will discover something is missing — his tail.

Prosthetic tail a possible solution to horse's predicament

If a dolphin can get a prosthetic tail, why can’t a horse?

That’s one potential solution for tailless Soren that his rescuers and owners have been pondering.

Photo illustration by KERA WILLIAMS/Special to the Standard-Examiner

Green with envy

Who needed flat-screen TVs, iPhones and McMansions to get the envy ball off and rolling?

Even back in the day, Caveman Joe couldn’t help but drool over his hole-in-the-rock neighbor’s new hunting spear and wish he had one just as sharp and sporty.

And Cavegal Jane may have loved her own rock jewelry, but she also turned a tad green over the latest fad in mastodon-tooth bracelets.

Envy is an everlasting state of mind that’s plagued our psyches since the dawn of time.

Modern researchers have even pinpointed a new incarnation of this age-old lust for things out of reach: Facebook envy. One study just released by German researchers in February found that envy often rears its head as we scroll through others’ posts about exotic vacations, new houses and job promotions.

On this St. Patrick’s Day — as we’re reveling in all things green — we turned to the experts for their insights on why envy may turn US into something green, and how we might better cope with this state of mind.

Turn your emotions into something more positive

Envy is a “showstopper,” a condition that keeps us from growing and moving forward in our lives.

That’s the message from one Top of Utah therapist, who says she once felt inadequate and depressed as a stay-at-home mother of young children because she envied all of her neighbors’ homes that looked cleaner and less chaotic.

“It was unhealthy envy because it wasn’t getting me anywhere,” says JanaLynn Young, a Layton marriage and family therapist.

So how do we cope with envy in a healthy way or use it to make changes in our lives? Young and other area experts share a few suggestions.

Photo illustration by BRYAN NIELSEN/Standard-Examiner

How to know when Valentine's Day is headed for disaster

Mindy has spent weeks creating a scrapbook for hubby Joel for Valentine’s Day, filled with photos and cute notes about everything from their first date to their wedding to their best-ever Hawaiian vacation.

Joel got Mindy a card and a muffin — a pink one — that he picked up at the gas station on the way home from work.

Are you guessing this couple’s Valentine’s Day is headed for disaster faster than a box of chocolates left sitting by the romantic fireside?

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Therapist suggests making the extra effort on Valentine's Day

Embrace the day, hearts and all.

That’s the message from therapist Tami Robinette, who says doing something for your sweetie — beyond saying “I love you” — is important on Valentine’s Day.

Gifts are a message, too, and add “a little oomph” to the words that are spoken, says the licensed clinical social worker at Weber State University’s Counseling and Psychological Services Center. Whether you buy funny presents or go to a movie, it’s about making an extra effort to tell this person he or she is special to you, she says.

Here are some tips from Robinette and other Top of Utah relationship experts on getting it right this Valentine’s Day.

Steve "Scooter" Carroll of Layton competes in a demolition derby in Evanston, Wyo., in "Kings of Crash," which premieres Feb. 10 on Velocity.
Velocity

'Kings of Crash': Top of Utah 'four-wheeled gladiators' featured in Velocity channel show

The rest of the world is about to find out what some Utahns already know: Our pretty great state is a hotbed of demolition derby action.

Weekend after weekend, in arenas hither and yon, drivers like Layton’s Steve “Scooter” Carroll and West Haven’s Johnny Gullo are tearing it up in the dirt, bent on smashing the living daylights out of each other.

And once the derby’s over, these guys are hard at work in their shops, rebuilding their cars to go out and do it all over again.

The drama of Utah’s demolition derby circuit is the focus of “Kings of Crash,” a new reality television series debuting next Sunday, Feb. 10, on the Velocity channel. Drivers Carroll and Gullo, along with Gullo’s 20-year-old son Dalton, are three of eight “four-wheeled gladiators” whose lives were documented by TV crews during last summer’s competitive season.

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A photo of Jen Votava’s dog, Gracie, appears on June 3 in “The 365 Days of Puppies a Year” 2013 calendar. The pup was posed on a pink flowered blanket for her photo.

We love, we love, we love our little calendar girl

Instead of a red-letter day, June 3 will go down this year as a pink flower day.

That’s the day Gracie will shine, with a pretty flower over her right ear, on the pages of the annual “The 365 Days of Puppies a Year” calendar.

Yes, our very own South Ogden cockapoo is a bit of a celebrity as Utah’s only featured pup in this popular wall calendar created by Workman Publishing Company of New York.

“We joke that she’s a calendar girl,” says Gracie’s “mom” Jen Votava, who was surprised to be notified last fall that one of the photos she had submitted of her two dogs had been chosen for the 2013 publication.

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