Ask Dr. Steve: Stress is quietly ruining your health — here is how to stop it before it stops you

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Steven A. SzykulaStress has become so common in modern life that we often dismiss it as “just part of living.” But chronic stress isn’t just uncomfortable — it’s actively damaging your physical and mental health in ways you might not realize.
Understanding these hidden impacts will help you recognize when normal life pressures have crossed into dangerous stress distress territory.
The stress response that once saved our ancestors from predators now fires constantly in response to deadlines, traffic, and endless notifications. Your body and emotional part of the brain can’t distinguish between a charging bear versus an overdue project. The same cascade of stress hormones occurs and, over time, can wear down nearly every system in your body.
The good news is that stress-related damage is largely reversible when caught early and continuously reckoned with. Recognizing the signs and taking action can prevent years of accumulated health and mental health problems.
Understanding Stress and Health
Q: How does chronic stress physically damage the body?
A: Chronic stress keeps your body in a state of constant alert, flooding it with cortisol and adrenaline. Over time, this leads to inflammation throughout the body, weakened immune function, disrupted sleep, digestive problems, and cardiovascular strain and potentially depression. Research shows that 75-90% of primary care visits are related to stress-induced or stress sensitive conditions.
Q: What are the early warning signs that stress is affecting my health?
A: Early signs include persistent fatigue despite adequate sleep, frequent headaches, digestive issues, muscle tension (especially in neck and shoulders), difficulty concentrating, and increased irritability. Physical symptoms often appear before emotional ones — your body is trying to tell you something’s wrong before your mind fully registers the problem.
Q: At what point does normal stress become dangerous?
A: Stress becomes dangerous when it persists for weeks without relief, interferes with daily functioning, or causes physical symptoms. If you’re experiencing chest pain, chronic insomnia, panic attacks, or significant changes in appetite or weight, your stress has reached a level requiring professional attention. McKay-Dee Hospital’s emergency department reports a 40% increase in stress-related visits over the past five years.
Q: Why do some people handle stress better than others?
A: Stress resilience depends on multiple factors: genetics, early life experiences, current support systems, and learned coping strategies. Someone who experienced secure attachment in childhood typically has better stress regulation than someone with early trauma. However, resilience can be developed at any age through specific life style actions and interventions.
Q: How does chronic stress affect the brain?
A: Chronic stress shrinks the hippocampus (affecting memory) and enlarges the amygdala (increasing fear responses). The prefrontal cortex, responsible for decision-making and emotional regulation, shows reduced activity. These changes explain why stressed individuals often feel foggy, forgetful, and emotionally reactive.
Q: What’s the connection between stress and chronic diseases?
A: Chronic stress is linked to heart disease, diabetes, autoimmune disorders, and accelerated aging. The inflammatory response triggered by persistent stress damages blood vessels, disrupts insulin regulation, and suppresses immune function. Studies show chronically stressed individuals have a 50% higher risk of developing cardiovascular disease.
Q: Can stress really cause physical pain?
A: Absolutely. Stress causes muscle tension, particularly in the neck, shoulders, and back. It also lowers pain tolerance and can trigger tension headaches and migraines. Many chronic pain conditions are maintained or worsened by underlying stress. Ogden-area physical therapy clinics report that 60% of their patients have stress-related tension as a primary or contributing factor to their experience of pain. .
Q: How quickly can stress reduction improve health?
A: Some benefits appear immediately — blood pressure can drop within minutes of relaxation. Sleep often improves within days of implementing stress management. Cortisol levels typically normalize within 2-4 weeks of consistent stress reduction. Full reversal of stress-related health impacts usually takes 3-6 months of sustained intervention.
Q: What stress management techniques actually work?
A: Evidence-based techniques include cognitive-behavioral therapy (8-12 sessions showing optimal results), mindfulness meditation (even 10 minutes daily helps), regular exercise (150 minutes weekly), and consistent sleep schedules. Breathing exercises can provide immediate relief — try the 4-7-8 technique: inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8.
Q: When should I seek professional help for stress?
A: Consider obtaining a professional evaluation if stress symptoms persist despite self-help efforts, or if it is interfering with work or relationships, or causing physical symptoms. A comprehensive psychological evaluation can identify specific stress patterns and recommend targeted interventions. Many don’t realize that stress-related cognitive changes can be formally assessed and evaluated and treated.
Q: How can I tell if my stress is affecting my family?
A: Watch for changes in family dynamics: increased arguments, children’s behavioral problems, or withdrawal from family activities. Children often absorb parental stress, showing symptoms like stomach aches, sleep problems, or declining school performance. Family stress patterns can be evaluated and addressed through targeted interventions.
Q: Is workplace stress different from other stress?
A: Workplace stress often involves factors outside your control — deadlines, difficult colleagues, job insecurity. It’s particularly damaging because it’s chronic and unavoidable. Many Ogden employers increasingly recognize this, with companies encouraging their employees to use their prevention and mental health benefits.
Closing
Chronic stress is not just an uncomfortable part of modern life — it’s a serious health risk. It deserves the same attention as any medical condition. The damage stress causes to your body and mind is real, measurable, and cumulative. But it’s also treatable and often reversible when addressed.
Your health — both physical and mental — depends on managing stress before it manages you. The tools and support are available; the first step is recognizing that you deserve to live without the constant burden of chronic stress.
For those seeking evaluation or help for stress-related concerns, professional services are available at Comprehensive Psychological Services (WeCanHelpOut.com) which has locations near you.
Early assessment can prevent years of accumulated health impacts.
About the authors: Dr. Steve and Jason Sadora, M.S., are mental health professionals at Comprehensive Psychological Services: WeCanHelpOut.com.