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Ask Dr. Steve: Small changes can create profound shifts in emotional well-being

By Steven Szykula, PhD and Jason Sadora, CMHC - Special to the Standard-Examiner | Sep 20, 2025

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Research shows that small daily habits, practiced consistently, can be as effective in reducing symptoms of mild to moderate mental health conditions.

The habits that most impact mental health take less than five minutes each. They work by gradually rewiring neural pathways, shifting hormone balance, and creating positive feedback loops that compound over time. The challenge isn’t complexity–it’s consistency. Your brain needs 21-66 days of repetition before new behaviors become automatic.

These aren’t feel-good suggestions or popular psychology trends. These are evidence-based practices shown in controlled studies to significantly improve mood, reduce anxiety, and enhance overall psychological well-being. The key is starting small enough, so that you follow through and stick to it.

The Five Game-Changing Habits

Q: What’s the single most powerful 2-minute habit for mental health?

A: The “three good things” practice. Every night, write three specific positive events from your day, no matter how small. Research shows this simple practice increases satisfaction and reduces depression symptoms within two weeks. It works by retraining your brain’s negativity bias–you start unconsciously scanning for positive experiences throughout the day.

Q: How exactly should I do the three good things practice?

A: Be specific. Instead of “had a good day,” write “enjoyed the warmth of morning sun on a walk” or “coworker complimented my presentation.” Include why it felt good. Studies show adding the “why” deepens the neural impact. Keep a dedicated notebook–the physical act of writing ( not typing) activates different brain regions. Therapists report clients who maintain this practice for 6 weeks show measurable mood improvements.

Q: What’s the morning habit that sets mental health for the entire day?

A: Morning light exposure within 30 minutes of waking. Step outside for just 2-3 minutes, even if cloudy. This anchors your circadian rhythm, improving sleep, mood, and energy. Morning light triggers cortisol release (when you want it) and sets melatonin production for evening. No sunglasses–the light needs to reach your retinal ganglion cells.

Q: Why is morning light more important than other habits?

A: Light is the master regulator of biological rhythms. Disrupted circadian rhythms are implicated in depression, anxiety, and bipolar disorder. Studies show morning light exposure can be as effective as antidepressants for seasonal depression. Utah’s winter inversions make this especially crucial–even filtered sunlight through clouds works.

Q: What’s the 30-second breathing technique that stops anxiety?

A: Physiological sighing: Two or three … 2 second inhales through the nose followed by one long exhale through the mouth. This specific pattern maximally activates your parasympathetic nervous system, immediately reducing anxiety. Research from Stanford shows this technique, done for just a few minutes daily, reduces anxiety more effectively than meditation.

Q: Is there such a thing as “breathe a sigh of relief?

A: Use it reactively when stressed, but also practice proactively–set three phone alarms daily for 1-minute breathing sessions. This builds stress resilience before you need it. The regular practice makes the technique more effective during actual anxiety. Local stress management programs teach this as a primary intervention.

Q: What’s the physical habit that most impacts mental health?

A: The “movement snack”–one minute of movement every hour. Stand, stretch, do jumping jacks, or walk to the water fountain. This isn’t exercise; it’s breaking sedentary patterns. Prolonged sitting increases depression risk by 25%. These micro-movements improve mood immediately through increased blood flow and neurotrophic factors.

Q: Is one minute really enough to make a difference?

A: Yes. Research shows that movement and taking a break from sitting every hour improves mood independent of regular exercise. It’s about frequency, not intensity. Set hourly phone reminders initially. After 2-3 weeks, you’ll naturally feel restless when sitting too long. Office workers using this technique report improved afternoon energy and mood.

Q: What’s the evening habit that protects mental health?

A: The “phone sunset”–placing your phone in another room 30 minutes before bed. This single change improves sleep quality more than any sleep aid. The psychological separation from constant connectivity allows your nervous system to down-regulate. Better sleep directly correlates with improved mood, reduced anxiety, and better emotional regulation.

Q: Why is putting the phone away so powerful?

A: It addresses multiple mental health disruptors simultaneously: blue light suppression of melatonin, cognitive stimulation preventing mental wind-down, and social comparison/FOMO that triggers anxiety. Studies show people who charge phones outside their bedroom get 48 minutes more sleep weekly and report 23% lower anxiety levels.

Q: How long before these habits show results?

A: Some of these habit changes take effect immediately (breathing, movement), while others build over time. Most people notice changes within 7-10 days, with significant improvements by week 3. Brain imaging shows structural changes beginning at 2 weeks of consistent practice. The key is consistency over perfection–missing one day doesn’t erase progress, but you do need to stick to it.

Q: What if I can only commit to one habit?

A: Start with morning light. It requires no equipment, takes minimal time, and impacts multiple systems. Once established (about 2 weeks), add another. Success with one habit creates momentum for others. Comprehensive evaluations often reveal which habits would be most impactful for individual situations.

Q: Can these really replace therapy or medication?

A: For mild symptoms, sometimes yes. For moderate to severe conditions, they’re powerful adjuncts but not replacements. Think of them as foundation–necessary but sometimes not sufficient. These habits make other treatments more effective. Professional assessment can determine if habits alone are adequate for your situation.

Q: What’s the biggest mistake people make with habit formation?

A: Starting too big. “I’ll meditate 20 minutes daily” fails; “I’ll take three deep breaths” succeeds. Make habits so small that not doing them almost feels silly. Once established, you can expand. Wellness programs using this “tiny habits” approach show 80% adherence versus 20% for traditional more heavy requirement approaches.

Q: How do I maintain habits during stressful periods?

A: That’s when you need them most but are most likely to abandon them. Create “minimum viable” versions–if you can’t do three good things, do one. Can’t go outside? Look out window for 30 seconds. Maintaining any version of the habit preserves the neural pathway.

Q: Should I track these habits?

A: Simple tracking increases success rates by 40%. Use a basic calendar, marking X for completed days. Don’t track multiple metrics–just track and mark whether you did it or didn’t. The visual chain of X’s becomes motivating. After 50 to 60 days, habits typically become automatic and tracking becomes unnecessary.

Closing

Mental health transformation doesn’t require life upheaval–it requires tiny, consistent actions that gradually shift your brain’s default patterns. These five habits take less than 15 minutes total daily but can fundamentally change how you feel, think, and respond to life’s challenges.

The power isn’t in the habits themselves but in their compound effect. Morning light improves sleep, which enhances mood, which motivates movement, which reduces anxiety, which improves relationships–creating an upward spiral that builds momentum over time.

Start with just one habit today. Not tomorrow, not Monday–today. Choose the one that seems easiest or most appealing. Do it imperfectly but consistently. Your brain doesn’t care about perfection; it responds to repetition.

Remember: massive change comes from tiny actions repeated daily. You don’t need more information or the perfect plan. You need to start. These simple habits can be the foundation for lasting mental health improvement, whether used alone or alongside professional treatment.

For those in Utah seeking comprehensive mental health support, professional evaluation can identify which habits and interventions would be most beneficial for your specific situation. Comprehensive Psychological Services (WeCanHelpOut.com) offers personalized assessment and evidence-based treatment planning to optimize your mental health journey.

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