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Beyond Bars: Prison taught me there are some things that are better left unsaid

A couple of days ago at the grocery store, I ran into my drug court defense attorney. He asked how I was and I told him great. He asked if I was still writing for the paper and I asked if he was still the drug court attorney, which he was.I could have left things at those pleasantries, but I ...

Beyond Bars: Navigating the dating scene after being in prison

Part of one’s acclimation from prison to the outside world is going from the constant interaction with other people, where it’s impossible to get time alone, to perhaps a situation where alone is the norm. And in my life before going to prison, there really hadn’t been another time where ...

Beyond Bars: For the addict who does want help, there are many options

I’ve been a mixed martial arts fan since the 90s, back when the only way for me to watch UFC fights was on VHS tapes and they only place we knew to buy them were at the once a month swap-meet a couple towns over. Now that MMA is mainstream and YouTube exists, it would be hard to keep up with ...

Beyond Bars: Time will tell if newly released friend can stay out of prison

Hollywood is getting out of prison this week. That’s the name a friend of mine went by. Having a prison “handle” somewhat designates that you’ve embraced the whole prison experience, and couldn’t hold more true in this situation. Hollywood was my cellie in my first housing unit in ...

Beyond Bars: Incarceration isn’t the worst loss of freedom

I’ve run across so many people who feel going to prison is just about the worst thing that can happen to someone. I personally don’t see it that way. Of course, I can only go off of my own experiences. In the case of drug addicts, which is a large portion of the prison population, if the ...

Beyond Bars: A friend makes a choice and goes back to prison

I just received some crappy news. A guy I would call a friend, for this we’ll call him “Tim,” just went back to prison. Tim’s wife called me quite distraught and wanted to know what she should do. I suggested she get advice from a lawyer. There was no way to sugar coat the situation. ...

Beyond Bars: Sometimes I miss the simplicity of prison

Numerous people have said to me, “I couldn’t do prison.” For one, you usually don’t get a choice; and for two, yes you could. People adapt. Life goes on, even in prison. It’s a different life, not the most desirable life, but it isn’t all bad.Prisoners have hopes and desires, ...