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LLOYD: Celebrate your beliefs in your own way and let others do the same

By Jared Lloyd - | Apr 4, 2026

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Jared Lloyd

I’ve been thinking about how this time of year brings together a confluence of religious observances.

Most of us here in our area are probably focused on the Christian holiday of Easter, celebrating the resurrection of Jesus Christ, but there are plenty of other observances that are important to individuals of other faiths.

There is the Jewish Passover, which is celebrated this year from April 2-9. In the last couple of weeks, we have seen celebrations of the Hindu Holi Festival and the Islamic Eid al-Fitr, which marks the end of Ramadan.

That’s a lot of holidays.

I don’t know that much about Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist and other religious traditions. I’ve learned a little bit here and there but I’m certainly not an expert in world religions.

But I have considered how important they are to so many. They provide direction, purpose and understanding of life.

In a broader sense, I’ve come to a conclusion that everyone has their own belief systems. As individuals, we simply do not have the capacity to understand everything in the world we live in, so we rely on our beliefs to fill in the gaps.

For many, that is embodied in their belief in a higher power. Others focus instead on scientific or natural belief systems. You could also point to political and philosophical approaches as examples of other belief systems.

Which way is the best?

Well, I think from a human perspective that depends on the person.

That’s why I’m a firm believer that we should fight the urge to judge others for their beliefs.

Many religious and secular sources conclude that judging can be harmful, from the Christian teaching of Jesus from the New Testament that says “Judge not, that ye be not judged” (Matt. 7:1) to the aphorism attributed (likely incorrectly) to Walt Whitman that says “Be curious, not judgmental.”

We often judge instinctively but logically we have the ability to recognize that we do so with limited facts. We can’t know all of the circumstances, experiences, motivations and decisions that someone else has made, so it’s impossible to judge them accurately.

That’s why I think it is so important to treat others with respect and compassion, even if they have different belief systems.

With the recent conflict in the Middle East monopolizing the world stage, I’ve seen people choosing to judge those involved.

Sometimes those judgments are based on economic principles (who isn’t frustrated with the rapid rise in gas prices?) but often the condemnation is directed at religious beliefs — specifically Muslims, Christians and Jews.

What an unfortunate, shortsighted way to view the world.

There are estimated to be more than 15 million Jews in the world, with more than 2 billion followers each of Islam and Christianity. With those types of numbers, there will certainly be plenty in each group who make bad decisions that harm others.

That’s the case with any category that we might belong to. I have brown hair and blue eyes, and I’m sure there have been plenty of individuals who have one of those characteristics (or even both) who have done things that I would find abhorrent.

Should I be judged the same as them just because we share hair and/or eye color?

No way. That’s ridiculous.

I believe imposing such sweeping views on large groups of people because of their religion (or race or gender or age or culture or height or political affiliation or any other grouping) is a gross misrepresentation of each individual.

I will continue to believe in the overall goodness of human beings, that there are more people who want to help others than who want to harm them. I have wonderful friends who are Jews, Muslims, Christians and of other belief systems, people who I admire greatly.

That, in my view, makes it easy to respect that others may believe differently. I don’t need to agree with them but I do need to recognize that they have as much right to believe what they want as I do.

So my invitation as we celebrate Spring and our special holidays in our own ways is to be a little better and more understanding of each other.

If we all are more willing to do so, I think we can make a real difference in our homes, our communities and our world.

Jared Lloyd is the managing editor of the Standard-Examiner and can be reached at jlloyd@standard.net.

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